ELEGANCE: A LIFESTYLE OF A POISED LADY

"What you wear is how you present yourself to the world, especially today, when human contacts are so quick. Fashion is instant language." —Miuccia Prada

Elegance and fashion simply means less and moderate appearance of your style, colours and designs.

You Speak Class, Royalty and Beauty when you are modest in your appearance and step out as a queen in her world.

Looking elegant does not necessarily mean you have to over do.

Here are few tips you should look out:

Try to avoid sharp and loud colours that misrepresent you to people either by your hairdo or nail polish.

You don't have to keep long, dirty nail or long nail press on, make it look modest with most neutral colours or perhaps Red colour, that speaks elegance.

   You don't have to wear make-up every single day nor do you have to wear heavy make-up to be noticed, darling it is just a touch to enhance your appearance, help you feel more confident. 

Leave that face to look natural sometimes and don't forget the right skin routine from your trusted skincare products. 

To be honest, you can reach out to learn from MUA or on YouTube, get make-up kits that suits your skin colour and start the practice on how to apply your make-up yourself within the moderate appearance. 

           Having extra long lashes on your face is a bit off as a ladies, keep the lashes moderate, some men get pushed off seeing those long lashes on us, if you need to get an eyelashes on, get one that fit your facial outlook and make it moderate.

          A Poised Lady should not be wearing bulky accessories as Jewellery, it is a NO. 

What comes to your mind when picking your accessories should be your choice of outfit as a lady ......

 it speaks class when it is simple and beautiful than wearing heavy earrings or accessories ,it doesn't make you look Trendy. 

Your Jewellery should speak less in appearance but more on the outlook that beautifies your outfits.

            As a Lady of Elegance, you should understand your outfits and the events. Your choice of colours when making an outfits or choosing an outfit and endeavours to always go for your favourites colours that suit your skin tone ,it sure give you some sparkling (lit up) when you are fully dressed.

THE WAITING ROOM

"When I say "I fear" - don't let it disturb you, dearest heart. We all fear when we are in waiting-rooms. Yet we must pass beyond them, and if the other can keep calm, it is all the help we can give each other.

Katherine Mansfield

The story of the waiting room isn't just in the pain and hurt we go through in those moments but those beautiful lessons the Lord wanted us to grab and make use of for a tomorrow coming.

The waiting room humbles us as a person even down to our soul to make us see we are fragile and cannot achieve anything without God and only in his timing.

You might be delayed in the waiting room for many reasons best known to the ONE you are waiting to see the Almighty God, your moment of waiting might be days,months,years decades but one thing is so certain once you don't leave the waiting room of communion with him,you will surely get a response to your prayers. It might not be the way you wanted it come, it might not be how you wanted it to arrive, it might not be what you wanted it to be but surely it is going to be the best answer for you that will help fulfil your calling in life.

The ambience of the waiting room is always the calmness, the openness before him,the reality of who you truly are behind close doors , the moment of pouring out everything to him, there is nothing hidden because he sees and knows all.

The only thing he requires of us while waiting is trust and silence to hear him when he beckons on us that its our time, we need to heed to his call and understand the signs so we won't be the one delaying ourselves in the room for answered prayers.

The waiting room is a journey to self-healing and openness before God and the ability to allow him take the wheel. 

It's time to LET Go and Let God take the wheel over that issue,  you have tried on your own, give him his space let him take over.

 It's your turn in the WAITING ROOM.